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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart
I want to say more about that thing called love: it’s my favorite subject. In this society we tend to equate the word yes with I love you and the word no with I don’t love you. They are completely...
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart
When I first wrote The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women, I interviewed twenty-six women in depth and received more than fifty questionnaires. We may be sure that these were all women who have an...
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart
In my last post I discussed the Gspot. Now let’s talk about ejaculation. Some women naturally seem to ejaculate when they are aroused, sometimes without even knowing they are doing it, others never...
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: The Female Orgasm
Recently I was asked for a list of things that are not generally known about women’s sexual responses and desires. Since women vary enormously, this is a little hard to do–and perhaps that is the most...
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Emotions
Failing to deal well with emotions is probably the single biggest cause of problems in relationships, especially as sex tends to bring up feelings. Yet they are rarely understood in this society....
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Feelings
In my last blog, I mentioned some basics around feelings, what they are, and how they affect us. I’m very fond of saying that the rational brain is limited in its value, and when it comes to feelings,...
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: The Power of the Orgasm
When a powerful orgasm surges through our bodies, it reaches into all those dark corners where we may be hiding difficult emotions. As we grow up we are taught that part of being adult is controlling...
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart – Flows of Energy
What is sex? I’ve never heard an answer that made sense so I have made up my own. I seems reasonable to define sex as concentrated energy which, when it flows through us, gives rise to very pleasant...
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Sex and Relationships With Mikaya Heart: Exercise, Sports, and Sex
I recently heard about someone who had orgasms when she was doing sit-ups. Presumably she uses her PC muscles when she is doing sit-ups, and the PC muscle in turn stimulates the tissues of the...
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: New Relationship Models
Until recently, the only kind of relationship that was given any respect was monogamy: get married, have kids, stay with the person you married until you die, and don’t mess around having affairs. In...
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Why Being a Woman is Better Than Being a Man
Ladies, after the centuries of oppression, sexual discrimination and persecution, we have finally got to a time in history where we feel like we have more equal footing, can achieve more than we...
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: When Sex Isn’t Working
When you just aren’t enjoying sex, what can you do about it? The answer to that is multifaceted since people vary enormously, but for now I’ll pin it down to three different situations: 1. If you have...
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Are You Bored With Vanilla Sex?
There are a million different ways to expand your sexual repertoire, incorporating various kinds of toys, props, or games into your play. BDSM (which stands for bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism)...
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Taking Charge
Sensuality is a vital aspect of most sexual play, and when you have someone restrained you can really go to town, using anything from feathers to whips, and using them on all parts of the body in all...
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Becoming Gay
Realizing that you are attracted to the same sex can occur gradually or very suddenly; it can happen when you are seventy or when you are three. It can change and fluctuate or remain constant....
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Sex and the Vastness of Being
Sex is an unparalleled opportunity to learn how to work with energy flows and develop awareness of the existence of states of reality that are beyond the physical. Although it starts with the body and...
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: The Value of Feeling Desire
In my last post, I described the various stages of desire, and suggested that we might utilize the experience of desire to manifest things in our physical world. We all are capable of manifesting what...
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Dealing with Jealousy – Again!
I’ve touched on this subject before, but it’s so central in understanding how to have healthy relationships that it needs some in-depth examination. There are not very many people in this world who...
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Love
Let’s talk about love. I have said before and will say again that it is not love but compatibility and companionship that make a relationship work. You might love someone and yet need to stay well...
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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Finding and Expressing Love
There are many ways to express love, and different people experience love in different ways. One of the keys to compatibility with your partner is when you both express and receive love in the same...
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